Wednesday, 01 July 2009
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Motivation
I think one of the downsides to running around the world is the fact that old friendships get jeopardized. There comes a time where people start to use the excuse of "too busy", "too tired", "no time" in order to justify why they're not coming to whatever event is being planned.
But underneath that I truly think it's a matter of having no motivation to see the person. Serious. If you really really REALLY wanted to see someone you'd make time for them. No matter what, because they're that important to you.
But sometimes people you saw for the vast majority of the day/week/year for x amount of years in a row become the people that you see the other minority amount of the day/week/year. Time kinda sorts through the friendships you had and throws out the ones that weren't really based on the same grounds. Yet, it is unfair to say that these friendships probably didn't mean anything because they did. Once upon a time. But people change. You change.
And sometimes you put all your effort into seeing someone and then realize at the meeting point that you really don't have anything in common anymore. So then what? Memories are strange things because you contract and extend things, you filter out the bad, amplify the good and all you're left with is a strange magnification of the past that shapes your present and dictates your future. Everything goes through the warp-age.
But I really should get some sleep, so I'll continue this tomorrow.
nicnocs! <3 u =)
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